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Good Man From my experience
of talking to women about their complaints, it seems most females are justified
with their distaste indecent behavior by males.
As well as my experience in the homosexual world, those guys for the most
part also want the same kind of man as a woman.
Far too often I hear about how men prioritize sexually proliferations as
their only “definition” of manhood. It
seems the conqueror attitude is the only motion men know how to display. Sadly,
when women find a nice guy, they find it too difficult to accept his kind and
gentle nature. I am a strong believer that we are sometimes unguarded in our
approach to romance. We actually
believe we have the power to control desires in another person that even God has
never successfully been able to control? If a person’s character is sold on indulgence
in promiscuity, he cannot make a commitment to anyone.
The man must first have self-control of his own heart, mind, and soul.
Most men never take the time to gain discipline in the areas of sexual desire.
They let their passions take them to places that they are ashamed of
later. For the man who can feel no
shame? It does not take away the shame of his actions.
Many men have rationalized their destructive behavior in a relationship
so they can enjoy the perverse manipulation of another.
It is actually this dissident sexuality that causes so many tears and
creates people who are afraid to ever walk to the door of love again.
It took one good man to say it like it is. And for doing that, he lost his life. Being aggressive, hostile, arrogant, and unkempt
even the most intelligent man becomes despicable.
When a man never practices faithfulness and loyalty, he can never truly
experience the love of God or woman. God
does not enjoy rebellion and promiscuity especially when that man is supposedly
in a committed relationship. It’s only years later when the man has grown old
and is still surrounded by chaos and unhappy relationships that he realizes the
folly of his self-indulgent nature. He
curses God for his lack of loving relationships when he has never been loving
himself. He then tries to rewrite
biblical principles to justify his base and selfish attitudes. It is only through wisdom and learning that a man
can truly reach his full potential. When
a man embraces honesty and good actions, he can be assured peace of mind whether
or not God intended for him to have a soul mate he could hold close.
He can know that his life will be judged according to the way he treated
others. I do not think God
belittles a man’s sin just because it fell on a woman.
Any man who cannot see the glorious creatures of beauty that God had
created for his enjoyment in kind and gentle ways, then that man deserves the
punishment that he committed against every woman in his life.
Arrogance will not protect us from the wrath of God, nor the wrath of a
woman. I will do my best to be a
nice guy with good manners and awareness of how my actions can harm or help
another. Thomas
A. SUTOR P.O.
Box 2343 Lompoc
CA 93438 Rockhawk.com |
All written word is "The Opinion" of Thomas A. unless otherwise noted...
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